Avoiding Money Decisions?

Many of us, even if trained in the field, often struggle with decisions about our finances and retirement.  Thinking about money opens the door to discomfort for most,m as Tim Herrarra for the New York Times states in his article,  A Smarter Way to Think About Financial Decisions.  

These feelings span all levels of financial training,  “I have a Ph.D. in business and an M.B.A. in finance, on top of a degree in architecture, so I think I can understand financial products pretty well,” Professor Sela said. “But still, every time I get a letter from my bank, my instinct is to shove it in some drawer.”

How do we reframe our thinking and make these decisions easier?  Try picturing the questions from a lifestyle vs. solely financial product view, such as, I would love to visit Paris or take a cruise around the world, as opposed to just choosing which annuity would suit you best.

Money Matters

Think about the last time you shook your head or rolled your eyes at another’s financial decisions.

Ever felt like your parents spent too much on one of your siblings?

Money has a special way of bringing out our sense of fairness and our frustrations.

Michelle Singletary for The Washington Post points out that we have two choices when dealing with our feelings about others money decisions, and both require acceptance.  Family and money: A lesson in accepting what you cannot change